I still feel ugly because everyone used to bully me in middle school?
Matt asked:
In elementary school I had lots of friends and no one ever said anything mean to me. Then we moved and I had to go to a different middle school from my friends. Everyone was so mean to me, if they would accidentally touch me they would say ewww Alex germs and rub them on some one else. They would also constantly call me ugly.
When I was a freshmen people started being nice to me and calling me pretty, and guys started to like me. Now, I’m a senior in highschool and strangers on the street will come up to me and tell me that I’m gorgeous. Everyone thinks that I changed so much and look so different from middle school. But I don’t believe them and I still feel hideous. Will I have low self esteem forever?
Diego
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In elementary school I had lots of friends and no one ever said anything mean to me. Then we moved and I had to go to a different middle school from my friends. Everyone was so mean to me, if they would accidentally touch me they would say ewww Alex germs and rub them on some one else. They would also constantly call me ugly.
When I was a freshmen people started being nice to me and calling me pretty, and guys started to like me. Now, I’m a senior in highschool and strangers on the street will come up to me and tell me that I’m gorgeous. Everyone thinks that I changed so much and look so different from middle school. But I don’t believe them and I still feel hideous. Will I have low self esteem forever?
Diego
February 7th, 2010 at 1:03 am
Evelyn
Yes you have low self esteem you need help.
February 7th, 2010 at 10:57 am
Avery
AWWW. im so sure your not hideous!
for one, those kids probably were just trying to be mean to the new girl. trust me it happens!
They also could have just been jelous of your looks. you shouldn’t let their words dictate your life like that. seriously. i know how badly that hurt you, but you have to look at yourself in the mirror say that your beautiful. everyday, kay? it’ll help.
:]]]]
February 7th, 2010 at 10:21 pm
Ian
I’m going to hit you with the truth: you choose whether or not you have high or low self esteem.
February 8th, 2010 at 11:36 pm
Madeline
Clearly you’re too superficial, get over your appearance it amounts to nothing. give it about 50 years, you’re corpse will look the same as everyone elses’.
February 9th, 2010 at 6:59 am
Morgan
see
don’t think what the other said BELIEVE IN YOURSELF .who called u ugly may be they jealous from u. .GOD MAKE WE ALL EQUAL.so be happy and start going to say I AM BEAUTIFUL,GORGEOUS…
THANKS
February 11th, 2010 at 10:22 am
Henry
Oh dear they must have been so jealous of you and you never realised. Now people appreciate your true beauty that has always been there so smile and take them as compliments. Dont punish yourself, you are a good girl!
February 11th, 2010 at 4:15 pm
Morgan
A strategy or brilliant work for you to try and assess and possibly increase your own real degree of self-esteem would be to try and carefully write down, and or simply gratefully reflect much deeper upon, the good things that people tell to you about you,
about the gorgeous way that according to them you are, about that somewhat unpercepted charming and even glowing transformation of you from your own freshman time to this more mature and much more experienced senior time.
Much of the necessary hard or suffering work of your own unfolding towards your own more respected adult life, of your own conscious and unconscious way towards more deserving and more receiving acceptance and admiration, has already greatly been done by you, or your own life more or less imperceptibly for you has done it for you, as can be deduced from the detailed way you have reported of your own memories of your own past.
A way of belief or unbelief, and a sense of lower or higher self-esteem or pride, may sort of be habitual for others, for us, for you. But, you might try and sort of diligently exercise in becoming ever more glowingly scientific about your own life, with less of negative or undocumented belief, and with more glowing and smilingly thankful acceptance of whatever praise those good friends and or strangers in your own world more or less impulsively or irresistibly may come and tell to you.
Nature, or life, our own life, ever sort of crudely innately demands of us, for our own and safer survival, for our own possible success, for our own pride and self-esteem, for trying and creating better memories for the future,
that we more and more shall feel and more astutely diligently exercise in ardently becoming and behaving in the style and fiercy mood of the proverbial old fox,
no matter what is recorded about our own age at the local registry office, no matter what school we are attending, no matter what we ever are doing in our own life.
Have a laugh.
February 15th, 2010 at 4:02 am
David
probably so, unfortunatley. i know i do – but it was from my mother constantly telling me i needed to loose 10 more #’s i’d be perfect, or putting me on some grapefruit diet for a week, you get the picture. And I’m almost 40!
February 18th, 2010 at 1:13 am
Tristan
chances are is that you are absaloutely gorgeous and you don’t even realize it..i had the same problem throughout middle school..those people that made fun of you probably did it because they have low self esteems.