How do i get kids to stop bullying me?
Jordinho95 asked:
i am a 13 year old boy and i am probably the most bullied of my age. I am constantly being beat up and i am always called gay and a sheep because i apparently follow people around, i am also called tiny penis boy because last year 2 kids pulled my pants down and saw my penis and you would think that after a year they would have stopped but no they haven’t. when i get home i sometimes start crying because all of the other kids are going out to places and i am the only one with no friends. please help.
Carlos
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i am a 13 year old boy and i am probably the most bullied of my age. I am constantly being beat up and i am always called gay and a sheep because i apparently follow people around, i am also called tiny penis boy because last year 2 kids pulled my pants down and saw my penis and you would think that after a year they would have stopped but no they haven’t. when i get home i sometimes start crying because all of the other kids are going out to places and i am the only one with no friends. please help.
Carlos
October 30th, 2009 at 3:37 am
David
do you try to fight back or call them names back. if you do then dont. just try to ignore the name calling but if your being beaten up definitely go to your parents or a teacher (if you havnt already)
October 30th, 2009 at 4:34 am
Gabrielle
my penis is massive but its no problem just move to a public school because it is free
October 31st, 2009 at 11:06 pm
Valeria
As hard as it will be, the best thing to do is to not let anyone know that what they are saying bothers you. Maybe watch the movie called Roxanne with Steve Martin. In the movie he has a really big nose and people keep teasing him about it. He comes up with 50 much funnier jokes about big noses and gets everyone to laugh with him.
I hope if you are being physically abused that you can tell someone about this. Most schools now have a strong anti-bullying program in place.
I agree with you totally, after a year, they should have found something else to amuse their tiny brains with. Obviously you are more mature than they are. Perhaps when they grow up, they will realise what a nice person you are and regret their current behaviour.
November 1st, 2009 at 12:30 pm
Maya
it is tough, i should know, but ask if you can change classes, or even schools. I won’t tell you to ignore it because apart from being annoying, it will usually break you before it breaks them. If you’re going to a different high school next year, stay at the same school until you graduate and go to a different school frm everybody else and make d\friends with people you like. And stick with them
November 2nd, 2009 at 11:11 pm
Connor
All you have to do is bring a bat to school and beat the crap out of them. You’ll get expelled but so what! – one year behind won’t hurt. Do what you gotta do kid, your still young. Its not like your going to jail. Just don’t kill them. Bruise them up real good!!
November 3rd, 2009 at 11:15 am
Alexa
Request not to have any classes with them next year.
November 3rd, 2009 at 2:31 pm
Mason
refer them to the Columbine incident. If you don’t know about it google it and look it up yourself.
Bullying is serious. It is real. The only reason that they are picking on you is because you seem vulnerable and weak to them, so what you have to do is not be vulnerable and weak, and not be such an easy target. I was bullied at one point, what did I do? I lashed out. Snapped in the middle of my classes. I called my bullies out in the middle of class to fight me, threw desks and chairs around and told them id kick their assess. Made them afraid of me, i was acting crazy for Christ sakes. What did they do? They thought I was crazy and they left me alone, being nice to me so they wouldn’t tick me off. Its funny how acting insane will get folk to quit messing with you.
I am a manager at my job now and I have a very nice young man who works for me. He looks very intimidating and Gothic, however if someone tries to come up to him trying to convert him from what they think is his ‘atheist’ ways, he is extremely quick to pull out one of his many bibles ans speak scripture more fluently than those who think he’s atheist.
Any who, he wears like a 7-10 lb heavy duty link chain, like the kind some people use to lock their bicycles or garden gates up with. It has lobster claw ends, so it just hooks around his belt loops. I asked him why he wears it, he says its a fashion statement–and also people tend to visibly be cautious of him because he wears this chain for fun, so im sure they imagine that he can hurt them with it.
Also, id suggest after you purchase your chains, you start lifting them and graduate to dumbbells so you yourself can look and become visibly stronger. These kids would be very foolish to mess with someone who looks like they can beat them to a pulp. If you can’t afford them, which i can’t understand why, you can start out with gallons of milk, water. work on your fitness.
idk if you have done this yet, but have you informed any adults about your current situation? If so, I don’t understand why more isn’t being done. You need to speak with teachers, your principal, guidance counselor–someone! I think when you speak about it to them you may need to throw it in there, that if these people don’t stop messing with you, you may eventually do something ‘bad’. The adult should get the message and take your report very seriously.
I know that you are a nice person and all you want is to be liked and not have to deal with these hassles but believe it or not–you may snap! maybe you snapping isn’t going to be as ‘innocent’ as mines, you may wind up finding a way to fatally hurt these kids. Also in these situations, the offenders are never the only ones hurt or killed. Innocent people are too–like in the Columbine incident. With saying that, if your teachers and school personnel aren’t acting and aiding you, you need to take it to a higher power, the school board and your local police department, especially if they are assaulting you. It’s better to get the Police involved now while this issue can be fixed, rather than later when or if you decide to show up to school with a gun and blow everyone’s brains out.
If they are putting their hands on you, by all means defend yourself, don’t just let people push you down. If they push, you push. This will show that you are not vulnerable and that you are up for the challenge.
These kids are not going to quit picking on you because you want them to, or if you try to avoid them or try to appear invisible. You are going to have to be proactive and do something, young man. I just pray that this doesn’t get uglier than it already is.
I hope this helps.
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November 4th, 2009 at 11:42 am
Alex
take some self defense classes like karate or judo